Set in the lush jungles and turquoise waters of Tulum, Surrender is a luxury retreat for high-achieving women ready to release control, reconnect with their bodies, and remember what peace feels like.
Reconnect with the parts of you you’ve abandoned in the name of success through ceremony, ritual, nature, and true kindred connection.
Soften your relationship with control by experiencing what it feels like to be held by the land, the rituals, and a pace that invites your body to take the lead.
Rebuild your internal capacity so the way you move through your days feels spacious, intentional, and aligned with the woman you’re becoming.
Let your body release what your mind has been carrying through Temazcal, biomagnetism, cacao, movement, warm earth, cold water, and true presence.
Repattern your emotional habits so you can hold more and receive more with six weeks of post retreat integration that helps those new patterns feel natural.
Let yourself receive without giving anything back with nourishing meals, thoughtful details, and luxurious care that makes surrender feel natural.
Through ancestral ceremonies, biomagnetism therapy, a traditional sweat lodge, a private cenote adventure, jungle hike + traditional mayan dinner immersion, cacao ritual, and a full beach day, you’ll be guided through the art of softening — surrounded by sisterhood, sunlight, and stillness.
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Welcome to your home for the week:
11 private king-bed suites, each intentionally designed for rest, regulation, and deep exhale.
Seven of the suites include a private plunge pool, giving you your own secluded oasis to slip into between sessions, journal in the sun, or simply let your body melt.
Tulum is where the earth and the spirit meet.
Between the jungle’s heartbeat and the ocean’s pull, time truly slows down here.
This Mayan land carries a frequency of release.
A quiet, ancient invitation to let go of what’s heavy and remember what’s holy.
In detail, describe what your students will learn and how it will change their lives indefinitely.
After the retreat, you’ll step into a gentle integration container designed to help you metabolize everything you opened, released, and reclaimed. Through guided reflection, therapeutic mentoring, somatic practices, and real-time support, you’ll learn how to bring the retreat into your everyday life. This is where insight becomes embodiment. Where clarity becomes choice. Where the woman you met in Tulum becomes the woman you live as at home.
Because a retreat can change you, but integration is what keeps you changed. The weeks that follow the retreat help you hold your new truth with both hands. You’ll return home with practices, perspective, and a body that remembers how to soften.
Arrival + Opening
Arrive in Tulum, settle into your private villa, and exhale into the energy of this sacred land.
You’ll meet the women walking this journey with you, enjoy a relaxed welcome dinner, and close the evening with an intention-setting circle to root into why you’re here.
Release
Begin the day with a traditional Mayan sweat lodge ceremony — a powerful ritual for releasing what your body has been holding onto. The afternoon is yours to rest: book a spa treatment, nap by the pool, journal, or simply be. This day is all about spaciousness.
Renew
Drop into biomagnetism therapy to support deep internal recalibration. Later, we’ll venture out for a private jungle hike, a traditional Mayan meal, and time to explore a stunning cenote. Expect connection, laughter, and the kind of inner expansion that only nature can create.
Open + Integrate
Ease into the morning with grounding yoga and a heart-opening cacao ritual. Then we head to the beach for a full day of relaxation, play, and integration. That evening, we’ll gather for a 5-course chef-curated dinner, savoring the beauty and richness of everything you’ve uncovered.
Closing + Departure
Your final morning is devoted to reflection. We’ll move through a gentle closing circle to anchor the shifts you’re taking home — the softness, the clarity, the capacity to receive more. Departures begin late morning, sending you home grounded, regulated, and reconnected to yourself.
- Brittia
"Attending two of Ash's retreats was an absolutely transformative experience. I’ve never felt so seen, so heard, and so held. From the moment I arrived, I was treated like a princess, and the emotional safety created in that space allowed me to release so much. I laughed, I cried, and I left feeling like a brand-new woman each time—relieved in ways I didn’t even realize I needed. It was truly what my soul craved, and I’m endlessly grateful."
"I felt like I found a little piece of me again like oh my gosh, that’s Heather, that’s the part I’ve been missing in myself and I felt very empowered to remember that when I came home and I think my family is definitely feeling the shifts of that because I came back feeling like I wasn’t going to push that piece of me to the side anymore and professionally I felt very empowered and excited. I had a massive epiphany about how I needed to restructure my business and that was the most valuable piece that I took away."
I loved the celebration and the women there. I think that’s the most powerful part was WHO was in the room because truly each of those women came with such intention and energy.
“It brought me back to myself. I’m finally seeing the woman I’ve been working so hard to become. I feel grounded in where I’m going and even more certain about what I’m leaving behind. I’m more present in my body, I’m giving myself permission to rest, and I’m noticing exactly which habits and systems need to shift so I can truly embody everything I’ve learned.”
“I walked into this retreat in survival mode, completely disconnected from myself, and walked out a different woman. The breathwork alone released decades of hypervigilance, trauma, and rage I didn’t even realize I was still carrying. For the first time since 2007, I’m sleeping without aids. I feel regulated, clear, calm, and deeply grounded in who I am and what I will no longer tolerate. This retreat changed my life—and it changed the way I mother, the way I move through the world, and the way I finally feel at home in myself again.”
In detail, describe what your students will learn and how it will change their lives indefinitely.
It wasn’t just the jungle or the ocean or the rituals held by women far wiser than me, it was the way the land itself seemed to say, let go now.
Ever since, Tulum has felt like the meeting point between my work and my spirit. Where my pace can soften and all the noise fades. The Mayan land carries a kind of ancient knowing that invites you, gently but also insistently, back to yourself. It’s why I keep coming back. It’s why I’m bringing you here.
I’ve been hosting retreats since 2020 (twelve and counting) and out of everything I do in this world as a therapist, a nervous-system-first mentor, a business coach, and a mother of three… retreats remain the most profound work I offer.
There is nothing more transformative than gathering women in a space where they don’t have to be everything to everyone or hold everything together. Watching a woman drop her armor, breathe differently, soften for the first time in years—it’s holy work. And it’s the reason I continue to build these spaces with so much intention.
In the past two years, I began adding a six-week integration to every retreat. Because the truth is, breakthroughs are beautiful, but it’s what happens after the retreat that changes your life. The integration is where the insights land. It’s where the nervous system catches up. It’s where transformation becomes a way of being instead of a moment in time.
Surrender is the evolution of everything I’ve learned.
It’s a recalibration, a remembering, and a return to the version of you that feels steady, open, and deeply supported. If you’re feeling the pull, trust it. Your body always knows when it’s time to soften, receive, and rise.
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